Featured

The Golden Rule…Silver Bullet To Common Ground & Peace Around The World (and at the dinner table)

In response to ongoing international crisis’s (Mid-East, Ukraine, etc.), religious animosities, domestic polarization AND a long conversation I had with a family member, we boiled everything down to The Golden Rule as being the North Star. We decided that it’s a workable common denominator for a pathway out of the forrest of hate that we seem to be lost in.

That said, we agreed that there are some circumstances when application of The Golden Rule will be bumpy at best and impossible at worst. Those situations are when moral values and deeply entrenched beliefs distort what should be uniform implementation of The Golden Rule

Examples:

The pro-life vs. pro-choice debate. The Golden Rule only works when each side operates in somewhat of a Mutually Assured Destruction (MAD) mode. To express it more bluntly, I may want to punch you but I also don’t want to be on the receiving end of your punch. Therefore, we both refrain from punching. This equilibium breaks down in the debate arena on matters such as pro-life vs. pro-choice.

The same break down occurs in other debates where morality, beliefs, religion, blind patriotism, cultish indoctrination, misinformation, indoctrination and good old fashioned hatred, prejudice and racism all cloud what should be the clear eyed logic of The Golden Rule. If either side in the Golden Rule equation suffers from blurred vision (like a person who has cataracts), the rule falls short.

Topics such as capital punishment, assisted suicide/right-to-die, and even the gun rights/restrictions debates do not fit neatly in the Golden Rule equation.

Despite the afore mentioned limitations, The Golden Rule remains important in its simplicity. It lacks the complexity of the bible, the tora, the quoran and the US tax code (well maybe that document doesn’t belong mixed in with these documents). Also, in the midst of any heated argument, whether it’s between family members, irate drivers, poitical parties or even nations, The Golden Rule can act as a “time out” when the conflicting parties can take a deep breath and reassess if this really is the path they want to follow. Unfortunately, The Golden Rule will fall flat for those who are hell bent on breaking it due to whatever distorted visions, motivations and beliefs drive them.

The bottom line…keep The Golden Rule for its beautiful simplicity and its applicability to most of lifes situations. It serves as a sound-bite conscience for most of us who have a conscience. However, be aware that not everybody plays by the rules or they twist the rules to fit their circumstances.

Featured

Write

18

Greg Dunn

Just get me 5 votes….

Greg Dunn

Greg Dunn

·

It may count but how and where do we find you and how do we get you to vote

I was inspired to write this blog because of that infamous conversation Trump had with the Georgia Secretary of State asking him to FIND votes. Actually “inspired” is probably the wrong word. “Repulsed” is a better fit. However, it got me to thinking…..Can I find 5 persons who I can convince to vote in support of my candidte in the 2024 election?

My answer: Other than finding 5 members of the BASE (and I’m not sure of who and where these folks are so I can approach them), I seriously doubt there are 5 persons who I can convince, convert, or motivate in time for November 2024.

This is why:

Extreemly polarized persons. Minds are made up.

Extreemly indecisive persons. They are forever fence sitters. (Tip: don’t stand behind them in line at the grocery store when the clerk ask “paper or plastic”, you will be there all day)

Extreemly disgusted, disgrunteled, disconnected and distrustfull persons. They are the folks that say things like ….”their all crooked”, “life’s a bitch and then you die”, “it’ll never change”, “the deck is stacked against us”.

Extreemly disinterested persons. They’re folks that say thinks like…”I don’t follow politics” or “that doesn’t concern me”. Getting these folks to vote would be like getting someone who hates broccli to try it. For the record, I’m ok with broccli.

And that brings me back to THE BASE. These are the persons who already support your candidate. We can count on the strong supporters to be voters. It’s those who are lackadasical that we need to make sure they get to the polls. For me, this is what the term “growing the base” means. Time, energy and resources spent on any of the other folks listed in this article might be wasted. The ROI (Return On Investement) concerning them is probably negligible. If we do not sufficiently identify and motivate this “silent majority” among THE BASE and turn them out in such significant numbers so that the opposition is trounced, the election and possibly our democracy is lost.

One last note, so I do not leave with the impression that I have given up on conversing and convincing others. I recently did some soul searching thinking about when was the last time I had a conversation or read or heard something in which I changed my mind or garnered a new perspective. For me it was reading the memoir of Sarah McBride (Titled: Tomorrow Will be Different: Love, Loss & the Fight For Trans Equality). I wanted to give her a shout-out because it provided me with an in-depth understanding and appreciation for issues affiliated with LGBTQ and Trans Persons.

I added this comment since it’s my observation that unless the person you are recruiting to vote in support of your candidate experiences some sort of epithamy, they are not budging from their opposition or their inertia. Since I’m a history buff always watching for the arc of history, I offer the following waatershed moments in USA history when THE BASE sufficiently expanded to enable a redirection of the course of history.

These moments/movements were:

Abolition and the end of slavery (though in many ways the civil war continues)

Suffraget movement…giving women the right to vote.

WW2….collective understanding that we had to crush Hitler and the Japanese emperor

The New Deal and the start of something called Social Security (granted it took The Great Depression for people to warm up to this idea)

The civil rights movement. End of Jim Crow, segregation, etc.

End of the Vietnam war. Recognition that it was time to leave

So what’s the WATERSHED moment we are living in right now? Are we in a watershed moment? I fear we are NOT at that inflection point. There I go again being a glass-half-empty guy. The existential threat posed by global warming is not yet garnering the urgency and collective action required for real change. Hell, the pandemic didn’t create societal solidarity since we continued to quibble about masking, opening/closing schools & businesses and debating the origins of the damed thing.

Oh well, I still support thinking globally and acting locally so I guess I will get busy searching for those 5 votes.

Politics

History

Social Commentary

Communications Strategy

2

Greg Dunn

Written by Greg Dunn

23 Followers

Boomer who’s a late bloomer to writing/blogging and loving it! Published novel MALL CHILD based on 15 years as weekend mall cop & 40 years as city planner

Edit profile

More from Greg Dunn

Funeral Amnesia and Missing Conversations

Greg Dunn

Greg Dunn

Funeral Amnesia and Missing Conversations

I walked into the hospital room a couple of steps behind my dad who swung back the curtain that’s supposed to provide a modicum of privacy…

6 min read·Aug 16

Meandering in Relationships, Careers and Life

Greg Dunn

Greg Dunn

Meandering in Relationships, Careers and Life

I’ve met those persons who knew in 3rd grade that they wanted to be a lawyer and sure enough they went to law school

4 min read·4 days ago

See all from Greg Dunn

Recommended from Medium

The Most Revealing Sign of Emotional Immaturity in a Partner

Karen Nimmo

Karen Nimmo

in

On The Couch

The Most Revealing Sign of Emotional Immaturity in a Partner

You can spot it quickly — if you’re watching.

·4 min read·6 days ago

4.2K

52

What’s a Little Sexual Harassment Between Friends?

Susan Wheelock

Susan Wheelock

in

The Narrative Arc

What’s a Little Sexual Harassment Between Friends?

I don’t believe this will ever end

·5 min read·4 days ago

6.8K

130

Lists

Staff Picks

408 stories·230 saves

Tech & Tools

15 stories·28 saves

Modern Marketing

33 stories·78 saves

Stories to Help You Live Better

21 stories·414 saves

My Fond Farewell to Viagra

Carrie Hayes

Carrie Hayes

in

Middle-Pause

My Fond Farewell to Viagra

Or passionate love in a sexless marriage

·6 min read·Aug 16

4.7K

75

6 Books That Will Redefine (Almost) Everything You Thought You Knew

Margaret Pan

Margaret Pan

in

Books Are Our Superpower

6 Books That Will Redefine (Almost) Everything You Thought You Knew

They are about to shake your brain out of its comfort zone

·8 min read·Aug 15

2.8K

44

The Commodification of Minimalism

Mike Grindle

Mike Grindle

in

Counter Arts

The Commodification of Minimalism

And the rise of lifestyle materialism

·10 min read·Aug 10

6.4K

160

The Tourism Industry Is Finally Meeting Its Maker

Anna Mercury

Anna Mercury

The Tourism Industry Is Finally Meeting Its Maker

Climate change has brought the colonial roots of tourism to the spotlight

·6 min read·Aug 16

2.3K

46

See more recommendations

Help

Status

Writers

Blog

Careers

Privacy

Terms

About

Text to speech

Teams

4 questions to determine compatibility, logic and trustworthiness

We as individuals and as a society need to be able to respect and trust eachother if we are to survive

As I scroll thru social media, conduct business, attend meetings, knock on doors and make phone calls while canvassing, I crave the following in all relationships:

Compatibility (aka, likability) with the other person

Logic (aka, consistency, dependability) with the other person

Trustworthiness of the other person. 

I can put up with some quirkiness if the other person meets the aforementioned characteristics. For example, the person might believe that the world is flat. I disagree and by all indications this position is fallacious. Likewise, there are some persons who insist that the moon landing never occurred. We can differ as to whether there was only one assassin of JFK or maybe there were multiple shooters. However, nobody is being directly harmed by these beliefs and barring too many other outlandish opinions, I could probably maintain a copasetic relationship. 

I can also appreciate that there are some differences of opinions and beliefs that are non-negotiable for some people due to deep-seated religious or moral reasonings. Examples might be “Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice” or the “Death Penalty pros-cons”. These are rabbit holes that I chose to NOT go down as long as the following criterias are met:

I find the person compatible/likeable

I acknowledge their right to their position (and they acknowledge the right to my positions/opinions).

I can maintain some level of trustworthiness that is grounded in mutual respect 

So, what might be the litmus test that determines “go” or “no-go” with this person in business and personal relationships? The following four situational questions will determine for me if continued engagement with the other person is worth the time and effort. 

  1. When Biden became president did you believe that the election was stolen?
  2. Do you believe that the Jewish holocaust by Nazi Germany did not happen?
  3. Do you believe that the mass shooting of the school children in Newtown CT was fake news?
  4.  Do you believe that all the participants of the January 6th insurrection at the U.S. Capital should have been pardoned?

If you answered YES to any or all of these questions, there is no point to going further in our business or personal relationship. Any “YES” answer is for me “a bridge too far”. 

If you answered “I don’t know” or “I don’t wish to comment” or “I don’t really care or I have no opinion” concerning any or all of the aforementioned questions, this tells me volumes about you. None of which is positive. It raises questions about your level of empathy, your consciousness about the world around you, your courageousness to take a stand and express an opinion. No matter how friendly you might be or how skilled you are at what you do, these types of answers make me question your reasoning abilities, your critical thinking and moral grounding. From this point onward, my compatibility and trust level is greatly diminished. I’ve gotten to the point in life when I no longer have the time, energy and patience to deal with persons who make such responses. 

Now it’s your turn to ask questions of me to determine if I am the sort of person that you might need to terminate any business or personal relationship. What might be some beliefs and opinions that I hold which you find so odious and incomprehensible that you would need to sever ties?

I’m curious concerning what situational questions you might pose to me which, depending upon my responses, would make you question my compatibility, likability, logic and trustworthiness. 

As always, I look forward to any and all feedback.

Upon reflection and clearer vision, certain things no longer appeal to me

Football season is fully underway and usually I would be hooting and howling at every spectacular catch. I still appreciate a good play but I can’t get out of my head the image of some players beating their wives and driving recklessly.

The Olympics and soccer world cup are on the horizon to include USA sites. I certainly support our teams. However, I’m more interested in record breaking performances and magnificent physicality no matter what uniform the player wears.

Election season is fully underway and I still appreciate the value of voting and the democratic process. But the specter of corruption, dark money and jerrymandering has jaded me. I’m dreading the presidential debates and the State of The Union addresses since they have deteriorated into shouting matches and dog & pony shows.

I still engage in light hearted conversations spanning the topics of weather, sports and traffic but I hunger for more substantive, meaningful exchanges.

I’ve pursued the American Dream, got educated, raised kids, bought cars and property, paid off all debts. I’ve lost my appetite for more. Maybe it’s exhaustion, maybe it’s regrets, maybe it’s a textbook case of pyrrhic victory.

I got rid of my tv’s and saved over $100/month. Now I just watch in-depth videos on all manor of topics even pausing the videos and taking notes about concepts I’m unfamilar with.

While driving I used to listen to the radio and change stations. Now I ride in reflective silence while, of course, keeping eyes on the road. A growing number of songs, movies, videos and pop culture no longer resonates with me.

Few if any kids still come to my house trick-or-treating and I’ve lost interest in the hoopla of every holiday decoration. It’s not that I’m bitter or depressed. I’ve just re-assessed the time-energy-effort equation and re-calibrated priorities. I’ve become more comfortable jettisoning overboard commitments, obligations, beliefs, ways of thinking and lifestyles that no longer are relevant for me.

My appetite for what used to be important has waned. In its place is critical thinking about actions, words, efforts and relationships. I experience a growing hunger to focus on what is important to both me and others in the current state of affairs and beyond.

The old appetite is gone and time will tell where the new appetite takes me.

An unpublished work/reflection by Greg Dunn November 1, 2025

Time for a 10–13 Society

All for one & one for all. Watch each others backs

We’ve all watched cop shows. The radio announces a 10–13 in progress. An officer needs assistance! Sirens blare. Lunch break interrupted. Cops rush to assist fellow officers. Their personalities, attitudes, cultures and backgrounds may differ but responding to the call, they are of one mind, body, spirit.

So what would happen if we had a 10–13 Society? Why isn’t there a 10–13 call when…. Someone’s starving. Someone’s freezing. Someone’s homeless. Someone’s about to do something terrible. 

We used to have that society.

The church bells in the Middle Ages rang announcing trouble on the horizon. The villagers braced for an advancing army, or maybe they took flight

The Minutemen of colonial days heard “the British are coming!” and they grabbed their muskets.

The volunteer firemen heard the alarm and rushed to the fire.

The snow kept falling or the river kept rising and everybody started shoveling or sandbagging to meet the crisis

The church burned to the ground and everyone pitched in to re-build it.

So, what happened? Why the change?

Society got professional, distracted, uncaring. Let the cops do it. Let the teachers do it. Call the social worker. Don’t get involved. Stay out of the way. Avoid the risk. That’s somebody elses problem. I got my own problems. We are no longer our brothers’ keeper. I picked myself up by my bootstraps and so should you. 

Imagine a 10–13 Society where an attack on one is an attack on all. Nip it in the bud: bullying, domestic violence, sexual violence, bigotry and all manner of injustices.

Imagine a 10–13 Society where we have differences but when a fundamental norm is broken, a switch flips and a hive mind takes over. The hungry are fed, the homeless are housed, the sick are treated and as they say in the military “nobody is left behind”. 

Imagine a 10–13 Society where the phrase “Everyone Knows Your Name” as sung in the “Cheers” tv show was really true.

Imagine a 10–13 Society where nobody looked away, nobody shrugged their shoulders and everybody in unison said “Hell No” and “You Can’t Arrest Us All”. This is a society where a “line-in-the-sand” was drawn over which no person in good conscience can cross. 

Imagine a 10–13 Society where everyone knew there was a safety net of people who were available to help concerning sickness, rides, baby sitters or just having someone to talk to. What if everyone could ease their troubled minds knowing there would always be “3 hots and a cot” and medical assistance if their finances and health failed. Deep down isn’t that what we all fundamentally crave? What more do we really need?

What would happen if “United Ways” really became “United Ways”? 

What would happen if churches and congregations didn’t just meet at designated times but flung open their doors and travelled about the community righting wrongs, feeding the hungry, visiting the lonely, sheltering the homeless as espoused in their mission statements. 

What would happen if all chambers of commerce, non-profits and corporations that spout lofty intentions and civic mindedness exited their board rooms and offices by getting down & dirty, working in the trenches facing head-on person-to-person with the societal issue that they portend to address. In sum, fewer “white papers”, reports, studies, grant applications and more good old-fashioned roll-up-your sleeves doing. 

Last, but not least, what if all political parties and politicians did less politicking and more doing. Less pontificating, blaming, posturing, strategizing and more doing. Walk the walk, don’t just talk the talk.

Imagine all the re-channeling of time, energy and resources that could be accomplished in a 10–13 Society. If done promptly and vigorously, it could be less costly than the start-stop, compartmentalized, fragmented, frenetic, knee jerk responses to societal ills. 

The hour is late. It’s now 10–13 PM and the midnight deadline is fast approaching. Transition now to a 10–13 Society so we still have a society when the clock strikes midnight.

Questions & Talking Points for Contractors, Small Businesses & those who complain about big government, taxation and regulations

Skepticism of big government, taxation and regulation is understandable but let’s drill down further on this conversation

This blog is targeted to the following persons:

Drivers of oversized pick-up trucks (which generally are in pristine condition and extremely expensive). This is an odd contradiction since the traditional American pick-up truck is a battered workhorse and todays showhorse pick-up trucks are driven by folks who complain about high prices.

Drivers of contractor vans rushing to and from jobs complaining that they can not find skilled, hard working employees.

Small business owners who complain about government regulations, red tape, taxation and government overreach in general (but frequently do not offer specific examples).

All of the above-described persons to one degree or another complain that they cannot afford to offer employees benefits, particularly health insurance benefits. Most of them complain that they could expand and prosper if government got out of the way of their business and got out of their personal lives.

All of the aforementioned persons complain that the high cost of housing limits the pool of workers in their area and forces them to commute long distances to jobs.

All of the aforementioned persons express valid concerns on case-by-case situations. I understand their sense of angst, anger, and frustration.

To all of the aforementioned persons and anybody conversing with them, I offer the following solutions in the form of conversational interactions that might move beyond the usual polarizing stalemates.

Situation/Complaint:

Can’t get good help. Can’t find skilled workers. Can’t get dependable, hardworking workers. Don’t have time and money to recruit and train the workers that I need.

Response/Solution:

Consider partnerships/internships/mentorships which would be government funded at no cost to you. I know you’re not a big fan of government, but consider a turnkey operation whereby you commit to hire the person that the government delivers to match your employment specifications. It the person is not a good fit, you’re not obligated to keep them on staff. Win-Win-Win (you-the employee-the government)

Situation/Complaint

Can’t provide employment benefits, specifically health insurance. This further limits the pool of job candidates. Both the employers and the workers can’t afford the private health insurance plans. Uninsured workers who get sick don’t show up for work. Both employer and employee loose money. Worse yet, the sick workers show up because they can’t afford to stay home. They are unproductive, make mistakes and worst-case scenario they infect the healthy workers.

Response/Solution

If there was universal health care insurance and if having health insurance was not connected to employment status, this would remove the burden of providing health insurance as part of hiring incentives designed to recruit qualified workers. The result would be more money in employers pockets since there would be no need to provide employees with health insurance. A further advantage would be increased morale and loyalty among employees who will not be constantly worried about health insurance. Employees and potential employees will not have to pick and choose among employers concerning employer benefits packages. They wouldn’t have to worry about fluctuating rates or whether benefits will be discontinued. Both employer and employee can focus on the work rather than the benefits package. Without worrying about offering health insurance, employers can concentrate on offering financial incentives to productive workers. Isn’t that the optimum business relationship? Win-Win for employer/employee.

Situation/Complaint

Too much regulation, red tape, bureaucracy, government oversight and overreach.

Response/Solution

What if the role of government and regulators was limited to matters concerning health, safety, criminal/civil violations and fraud? Focus on specific and blatant violations and situations rather than nusiance and frivolous matters. What if you could demonstrate that a rule, regulation, policy stretched beyond the afore mentioned circumstances? What if it could be quickly determined that a rule, regulation or policy was truly an unnecessary deterrence to your business? Win-Win since basic protections for workers/customers are maintained but onerous requirements on the business owner are removed. This will require that employers be specific about the regulation and how it is unnecessary and harmful rather than making a blanket statement that regulation is “bad”.

Situation/Complaint

Housing costs are so high that it limits the pool of qualified workers. Those that commute to work are so exhausted by the commute that they are less productive.

Response/Solution

Support creative alternative affordable housing solutions. This could include zoning that allows ADU’s (auxiliary dwelling units), higher density housing, land trusts that keep the land underneath the housing from becoming speculative, high-cost housing. Support limited equity affordable cooperative housing where working class workers own a share in the housing without being priced out by skyrocketing rental costs and skyrocketing home ownership costs.

Contractors, small business owners and folks who oppose big-government, and consider government as over-reaching would usually be opposed to the aforementioned affordable housing alternatives. However, if employers realize that when the housing market loosens up, so does the labor market. Employers might be amenable to proposals for cooperative housing since the ownership-share characteristics jives with the philosophy of having “skin-in-the game” and not becoming a “government give away”. Contractors, small businesses and opponents of big government are not being asked to fund these affordable, creative, ownership-oriented housing solutions. Instead they are being asked to not oppose them and ideally step up to support them for the good of society in general and for their own self-interest.

Situation/Complaint

These folks generally complain about government intrusion in their lives and overreach in society and culture. This is often the mantra of independent voters and libertarians. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with this perspective and it’s their prerogative to feel that way. 

Response/Solution

My response is YES….because I don’t want the government (aka big brother) poking into….

My medicine cabinet

My library 

My wallet

My bedroom

My personal values and beliefs

My sense is that this heartfelt response will get others on the same page with the understanding that government needs to butt out of my business as long as I’m not engaging in criminal activity or civil rights violations.

However….

There will always be persons who are hell bent on opposing innovation, change, and fail to visualize big picture outside-the-box solutions. I present this blog as a means of starting with listening to their concerns and moving toward alternatives and scenarios that are palatable to them with an end goal of win-win situations.

Now….

Isn’t that better than engaging in dialogue where we toss labels at each other a sample of which include: liberal, conservative, socialist, Marxist, communist, redneck, spender, elitist, etc. ?

One last thought and word of caution:

I endorse this “active listening” technique of conversational engagement whereby I determine what “irks” someone and I craft a conversation aimed at addressing their legitimate need in a constructive fashion. Frankly, I have not engaged in such conversations but I have not given up the notion that someone could be brought around to a win-win solution that averts the usual name calling and assigning of labels. 

That said, I will break off conversation when confronted with the following sample of attitudes and beliefs:

Persons who (for example):

Refuse to hire black persons, gay persons or whatever other category of person that happens to be their target of scorn.

Refuse to pay taxes and pay their fair share toward the good of the greater society. 

Refuse to acknowledge the importance of providing any sort of health insurance whether that be public or private. These are persons obsessed with the “survival of the fittest’ mentality and “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” mentality. These are persons for whom it becomes apparent that they would be ok for others to freeze or starve because they live in an “every man/woman for themselves mentality”.

Refuse to accept the importance of regulations that are required for minimum levels of health, safety and protection from criminal abuse.

If you seek constructive, thoughtful, win-win, solutions-based policies, I would be delighted to engage in further conversations. If you are hell bent on limiting your thoughts and comments to rants, doomsday scrolling and gas lighting jargon, stay out of my lane since life is too short to fritter it away. As always, more of my blogs can to found on www.dunnwriteswell.com and my novel Mall Child includes some of this unconventional thinking about society and lifestyle.

Questions for productive dialogue in polarizing times

Asking the right questions can get the right answers

Continuing with my quest for posts/blogs focusing on constructive communication, realistic solutions and understanding, I present the following conversational questions to replace doom scrolling, ranting, raving, cherry-picking facts and winner-take-all debates. Consider having the following questions at-the-ready when stumbling into difficult conversations replete with outrageous statements and assumptions. You will note that the end goal of questions is to drill down to the root sentiments and beliefs of the commenters and maybe they will gain insights.

So here we go….

Do you think the people you speak of as being human?

What’s the worst thing that happened to you in your life?

Who is the worst person you met in your life? Hurt you the most? Did you wrong. Lied to you. Treated you badly. Bullied you. Double crossed you.

Was this person an undocumented immigrant?

Was this a trans person? Was this person gay?

Was this person of a different race or different religion or different culture?

Exactly how has DEI harmed you?

Who is the richest person you personally know? Have they ever helped you out in a pinch?

Do you know any situation where a rich person did something directly benefitting you, your family, neighbors or friends? Identify a job that was created or a pay raise given. 

Have you ever been mistreated, stereotyped, or ignored because of who you are (looks, color, ethnicity, religion, culture, language, etc.). How did that feel?

What would really make you happy?

What do you think would be a fair share of your income devoted to taxes? Do you think this percentage should apply to everyone who has income and assets?

Describe a regulation or government over-reach that has directly and adversely affected you or your business. Be specific. 

For the record and while considering outside-the-box questions, I present some WHY CAN’T questions.

Why can’t correctional facilities really correct?

Why can’t reform schools really reform?

Why can’t mental hospitals really be hospitals?

Why can’t physical hospitals keep people and treat them until the root cause of what ails them is addressed rather than just patching up the symptoms?

Why can’t overdose victims be transferred to rehab facilities and only released once completely clean and the root cause of their addiction is treated?

Why can’t repeat offenders be kept in therapeutic facility where the root cause of their social disorder is identified and treated?

Why can’t homeless shelters keep people for intensive counselling and structured environment until the root cause of their homelessness is addressed?

More Costly….yes (initially) but not in the long run.

More Humane….yes

More Rewarding…yes (for the beneficiaries and the providers)

As always, your feedback is always encouraged and more of my blogs can be found on http://www.dunnwriteswell.com

Boomers: The Twilight Generation

Christmas presents 1957 at age 3, good times & strong economy

Kudos to Tom Brokaw and his book titled “The Greatest Generation”. Likewise, a shout-out of appreciation to my dad and all my uncles who served in the military during WW2. In fact, I extend a giant thank-you to EVERYONE from my parents’ generation who played a role in fighting the fascist regimes of Germany, Italy and Japan during WW2.

As a boomer who describes himself as a “late bloomer”, I finally have time in retirement after working concurrently in 2 & 3 jobs for the last 40 years, to offer some sobering and melancholy observations and suggestions. At the risk of being a “Debbie downer boomer”, I admit that I have transitioned from optimism to skepticism to pessimism during this 70-year journey from 1955 to 2025.

Let’s start with the superficially positive 1950s:

USA was “top dog” in the world. War was won, economy was robust, GIs were going to college and buying homes (with exception of black & brown GI’s but more about that in the 1960’s). Funding public education was cool and government over-reach was a good thing in terms of sending U.S. marshals to make sure that public schools get integrated. Believe it or not, the tax rate on the rich was high and there was a sense that “all ships were rising” in an economic tide. The only cloud on the horizon was the surprising comment by president Eisenhower in his prescient farewell speech when he warned of the growing strength of the “military & industrial complex”.

And then came the storm clouds of doubt, disorder and deception of the 1960s and 1970s and beyond:

Times were still good for us Boomers during our formative years of the 1960s and 1970s. Christmas was still fun. There were still plenty of gifts. We generally retained a blind sense of pride in the present and optimism in the future. 

I recall having a sense of pride in my Catholic grammar school and my uniform of navy-blue pants, white dress shirt and navy-blue clip-on tie (which kids would snatch from you during recess triggering a chase to reclaim it).

I recall cheering at high school and college games supporting Falcon and Cardinal mascots.

I recall carefree “cruising” the streets of my hometown with my high school buddies. Engaging in fraternity pranks and beer bashes in college oblivious to the gathering storm clouds portending the economic and political decline of the USA.

I worshiped my Texaco truck while the USA worshiped fossil fuels

We were blissfully oblivious to the crumbling ground beneath our feet, the depth of the deception and the missed opportunities. The following is just a sample of the decline and polarization that has come home to roost in 2025:

JFK assassination and the single shooter theory

All the other assassinations (RFK, Malcom X, MLK). All wake up calls and an end to the age of innocence

The race riots of the 1960s which I have recently come to understand as uprisings. In grade school, I heard briefly about the Tulsa riot but have come to understand the more accurate term Tulsa massacre. Only on a visit to Georgia as an adult did I hear about and appreciate the meaning of the Trail of Tears suffering of Native Americans on a forced march from Georgia to Oklahoma 

The Gulf of Tonkin incident off the coast of North Vietnam which justified the Gulf of Tonkin Resolution escalating the Vietnam War engagement when in reality it was a friendly fire incident that was covered up

Speaking of cover ups….Watergate (Nixon)….Iran Contra affair (Reagan)….Monica Lewinsky incident (Clinton…embarrassing but nobody died because of it)……Invasion of Iraq (Bush…never did find those alleged WMDs Weapons of Mass Destruction)

Traumatic international events and failed military adventures: Vietnam, Iran hostage crisis, Somalia (tragic Black Hawk down incident), Middle East mayhem (beheadings, terrorists, Syria, Libya, 911, Iraq, Afghanistan, and most recently Ukraine).

Promises broken and allies abandoned: Moong people in Vietnam, Kurds in middle east, Afghans, Ukranians, Palestinians who are NOT Hamas terrorists)

Nixon’s removal of the gold standard for our monetary system thereby untethering our currency enabling a fiat currency encouraging unfettered deficit spending ever since.

Enron scandal….Bernie Madoff Ponzi scheme…Sackler family big pharma opioid epidemic…2008 housing/stock market crisis and the bail out of the big shots who were too big to fail

Last, but not least, the gas crisis of the 1970s and our dependence upon fossil fuels and dependence on foreign oil sources. Jimmy Carter encouraged energy independence, self-sufficiency and conservation of limited resources but nobody listened back then (or even now). I was cognizant of Ralph Nader and his Naders Raiders efforts to combat pollution and protect consumers but like the rest of us Boomers, we unfortunately never moved him from the sidelines of the American politics and society. I now have a more favorable view of Ross Perot who railed against astronomical national debt and made a strong run as a 3rd party candidate but fell short because just like Ralph Nader, he was perceived as a “spoiler” and everybody tacked back to safe, centrist politics.

So now I’m a Boomer who’s in the twilight years of my own life and what might be the twilight years of my country (unless we wake up from our sleepwalking off the approaching political and economic cliff)

On a personal level, I have lost my appetite and enthusiasm for…..

Mascots

Parades

Fireworks

College, pro-sports and the Olympics (though I still have favorite teams and appreciate athletic accomplishments)

Blind faith in…..

Higher education thanks to college debt

Housing market and the real estate-developer-financial complex thanks to the being infected by commodification and speculation

Medical-Health Insurance-Pharmaceutical complex given their unholy alliance to keep everything conveniently complex and costly

Corporations despite all their “green washing” and “feel good” public relations commercials

Traditional politicians who continue to be addicted to corporate funding and remaining oblivious to the crumbling status of the American economy, politics and society

The sun is setting and the long dark night of decline is approaching but there is still time during these twilight years to turn this ship around. That’s why I’m dedicated to fighting this slide to a political and economic abyss. I’m hoping that fellow Boomers and the rest of society get on board. There’s still time if we acknowledge the reality of the decline of our personal and national status. We need to make the most of every opportunity by focusing on innovation and bold thinking with an eye to the long-term arc of history rather than supporting the status quo or sticking our head in the sand or living in the misguided rear-view mirror. 

As always, I seek any constructive, solution-based feedback. Check out additional blogs on my website www.dunnwriteswell.com. My perspectives and observations are also infused in my novel Mall Child.

It’s up to us to determine if the sun will set on the U.S.

Why is the boomer generation being decimated?

Low income, working class and even middle-class boomers have become expendable liabilities

I always considered a “bell curve” to be the norm. In school there were the few kids at the dumb end and a few brainiacs at the other end. The majority constituting the fat, middle section of the bell curve was considered the “norm”.

I always understood that a bell curve with a fat mid-section consisting of the middle class was a good, normal thing. In contrast, the dictatorships, third world countries and “banana republics” had no bell curve, no democracy and atrocities. Any reading of history shows that the decline of all societies commenced with the decimation of the middle class resulting ultimately in revolution. The Fall of Rome, Glorious Revolution in England, French Revolution, Russian Revolution and the rise of Mao and Red China all come to mind. 

Fast forward to today. Medicaid, Medicare, Social Security are being threatened with extinction and at best reduction. The safety net we worked so hard for is being shredded.

Why?

Consider the following:

Boomers are generally retired from the workforce and therefore are no longer producing

Boomers are getting older and sicker. Father Time is taking the inevitable toll and the cost of medical care is escalating

Boomers are blocking the housing ladder. They bought at lower prices and are sitting on low interest mortgages if they even still have mortgages.

In sum, they are now a cost center rather than the productive center that they used to be in their heyday. For the “powers that be” the boomers are both a problem and an opportunity.

The sooner Boomers disappear, costs will go down, budgets will be restored, we won’t have to worry about that pesky shortfall in the Social Security Trust Fund. Boomer real estate will be freed up. But that doesn’t mean folks that are lower on the housing ladder will get a chance to step up. When boomers’ real estate becomes available because of the cut backs to social security, Medicare and Medicaid, they will be distressed sales. By the way, rich boomers, the privileged rich of every other generation and hedge fund, equity venture capital companies that rub shoulders with all these other rich members of the landed gentry will gobble up the boomers real estate. With them owning former boomer properties at bargain prices, they can proceed to rent them out at exorbitant rents compounding profits. This will accelerate the “rentification” (not sure if that’s a word but it seems to fit the description) of the USA. 

Looking at the decimation of any class or group of persons in history and you will see that if you take away their property you have complete control over them. We need to look no further than land grabs of the Irish by the British, the Native Americans by the USA settlers, Aboriginals’ by the Australians, the Ukrainians by the Russians and the Palestinians by the Israelis’ (or by the USA if Trumps idea of “owning” the Gaza strip proceeds) and Greenland if appropriated by USA. Bottom line is “he who controls the land, controls the destiny”.

The strategy of the decimation of the poor, working class and even middle-class boomers could be a test run, blueprint for comparable decimation of all other sectors of society who are deemed to be too costly and unproductive, especially with the advent of the artificial intelligence (AI) and robotics/automation revolution. With automation of all vehicles, what are we to do with all those truck drivers, bus drivers, taxi/uber drivers? With automation of all mundane office functions, what is to be done with all those engaged in data entry/data analysis, recordkeeping, bookkeeping, accounting, entry level and even middle management office workers?

So what are some alternatives?

Stop The Steal (to steal a phrase from a different context). Stop the steal of social security, Medicare and Medicaid. Don’t be fooled by “privatization” which is a foil for “decimation”. The story of the Trojan Horse comes to mind with the strategy of “privatization” being the camel that sticks his nose into the tent and eventually takes over the whole tent for his own advantage.

Boomers (and every other stratum of society below the millionaire level) need to develop alternative, self-sufficient economies based on mutual aid to create their own safety nets and support networks if they hope to remain independent. Don’t give up what you earned and going forward pledge to do whatever it takes to NOT be beholden to those who consider you to be a costly nuisance that happens to be a profiteering opportunity.

As always, I look forward to any constructive feedback (solutions sought, exhausting ranting discouraged) and check out my additional blogs on my website www.dunnwriteswell.com.

The storm is inevitable but responses can be practical

First let’s set the stage and put all the cards on the table.

The American empire and our capitalist American dream is in decline.

Consider the following:

USA lost every foreign engagement since WW2.

Korea was at best a draw.

Vietnam, Iraq, Afghanistan, all lost military endeavors, all big mistakes. Vietnam and Iraq we should never have been in there. Afghanistan we should have just wacked Bin Ladin and his crew when he was there or when he escaped into Pakistan and be done with it while we still had the support and sympathy of the rest of the world and skip the 20-year war.

Ukraine appears to be another situation of too little, too late lacking clear mission or direction. Likewise, Palestine in particular and middle east in general have been and will continue to be quagmires. Propped up Israel all these years, got them the iron dome and get the hell out.

The USA role and international perceptions are receding. Look no further than USA stepping away from NATO, United Nations, World Health Organization, USAID, etc. Just ask all those who supported the USA over the years only to be let down. I’m referring to the following:

Vietnam: The South Vietnamese in general and the Hmong people (mountain highlands people) in particular

Iraq: The Kurds

Afghanistan: The Northern Alliance and the Afhgan translators

Syria: More abandonment of the Kurds and others who valiantly tried to fight genocide.

Ukraine: Abandonment appears imminent

The only exception to U.S. and NATO promises of support followed by abandonment was the Serbian/Kosovo war where Muslim ethnic minorities were spared from ethnic cleansing back when Bill Clinton was president. Ironically there followed virulent anti-American, anti-Western sentiments and I was always intrigued why we never got more credit for preventing further atrocities by the Milosevic regime. I might plunge down that rabbit hole in a future blog and I welcome any insights and reflections.

On the domestic front…..

American cities continue to languish, poverty levels increase, real wage income declines, middle income shrinks, income disparity expands, polarization and animosity skyrocket and the national and household debt levels break all barriers.

Housing, higher education and health care insurance and pharmaceutical costs have all skyrocketed

Like a ship in rough seas, we are taking on water but what will be the signs that we are sinking below the water line?

I offer the following indicators of imminent demise:

“Your money is no longer good here”.

When our currency is no longer accepted as the worlds dominant currency. When the cost to pay the interest on USA debt exceeds our ability to do anything else and the USA becomes a debtor nation with crippling inflation comparable to Germany before WW2.

“Your word is no longer good here”.

When the lack of trust and a sense of dependability on behalf of USA allies has reached this tipping point. Watch the rise of the BRICKS (Brazil, Russia, India, China, South Africa, most recently Indonesia and a host of what we consider 3rd world nations) replacing the USA and Western Europe as the dominant force economically and politically.

“You can no longer compete on an equal footing”.

With unchecked climate change/global warming, vast swaths of the USA southwest and the south (particularly Florida and ALL east coastal areas where so much of our population and economic power is concentrated) will no longer be habitable. Even the strongest of empires would have difficulty surviving if a third of their area became desolate or under water. We are already at the point when it’s illogical and unaffordable to issue mortgages and insurance for vast areas.

“You have become the deer in the headlights incapable of accomplishing anything because of paralysis attributed to polarization, partisanship, hatred, grievances, denial, pride, paranoia, misinformation, disinformation and sheer ineptitude”.

Just look at the increasing frequency, duration and intensity of the shutting down of the government and scroll thru social media feeds to conclude that we are steadily descending into hell.

For the record, I offer these observations as a patriot since I’m still hoping and working for the best outcome but I’m preparing for the worst.

And that brings me to suggestions for weathering the storm and hopefully averting the storm.

I summarize these recommendations as follows:

Hunker down and be prepared physically, socially and emotionally. Get into the best physical condition as possible to handle whatever’s coming at us. Harden targets including our residences and our neighborhoods. Have exit plans and alternative courses of action at the ready. Develop a social network and support system of persons we can trust who have our back. Focus our time and energies on relationships based on mutual assistance and common mission rather than wasting time convincing the obstinate or recruiting the unconcerned.

Be able to distinguish who is friend and who is foe. At the risk of sounding the doom and gloom bell, those who have attained a level of self-sufficiency and the ability to protect that self-sufficiency will be those who will have the best chance of weathering the storm. Focus on the basics of food, clothing , shelter, personal protection and networking to increase the chances of surviving and hopefully thriving.

Re-think our goals and lifestyles in general and in particular our housing, working, educating, shopping and social interactions. The reorientation needs to be upon a mutual aid society where self-interest and self-sufficiency is driven by cooperation and collective action.

Break away from the speculation, commodification of the real estate trap by switching to cooperative housing and land trusts. Re-imagine the myth of the American Dream so you can live modestly and comfortably in a shelter rather than in an anxiety driven rat race trying to get onto the first rung of the housing ladder and not falling off the ladder once you struggle to climb up it.

Break away from the higher education inflationary trap by switching to open-source learning, skill training, certifications, internships, skill-trading and mentorships. Become a lifetime learner building on your experience and demonstrating what you know rather than chasing the mirage of the “good school” at tremendous personal and financial expense.

Break away from the dog-eat-dog career trap. Break free of the job rat race and top-down management of the workplace environment never knowing when or if you will be laid off, transferred or otherwise abused in hostile work environments. Replace this sense of angst with cooperative, worker-owned-managed employment and employee-owned stock option plans.

Break away from the economic shackles by trading with those with whom we share interests and beliefs. Develop alternative trading/bartering systems supporting those persons, businesses, agencies, and governments that align with your interests rather than their interests.

Consider all aspects of life (personal, professional, societal) where federations, alliances and mutual-aid, mutual respect are the ingredient to remaining self-sufficient. Refuse to be beholden to the “powers that be” that have no respect or concern for you despite their shallow pronunciations of support and benevolence.

If we reach that point on the event horizon when irreparable differences, polarization and economic blunders toss us into a black hole from which there is no chance of escape, maybe the creation of federations, commonwealths and city-states might be an alternative to total anarchy.

Lastly, on a very granular personal level, consider the following axioms as all hell breaks loose when the systems and institutions we so long have naively placed our faith in deteriorate:

Stay out of….

My property

My bedroom

My medicine cabinet

My bookshelf

My wallet (and that includes my social security, medicare and taxes that fund immoral, unethical, wastefull expenditures)

My personal data, social media, internet and communications

My system of beliefs and perspectives

Thoughts? Reactions?

See more on my website www.dunnwriteswell.com and in my novel Mall Child

Look upstream to the systemic sources of our angst to find the culprits

Don’t waste time/energy at the waterfall, look upstream to sources of problems

As the fire hose of accusations, recriminations, distractions and chaos fills our consciousness, I think of the fable concerning the valiant but unsuccessful effort to prevent babies from cascading over the waterfall. The moral of the story is a plea to travel upstream to find out who is throwing the babies in the river in the first place. Everyone knows that if you don’t get to the root cause of problems, you fall into the expression of “the hurrier I go, the be hinder I get” and you fall into a financial sink hole of “spending good money after bad”.

So what prevents us from going to the source while we continue to be distracted by the end results? I present the following reasons:

The end result is identifiable and quantifiable. It’s the “low hanging fruit” from the tree whose invisible roots are rotten. 

We all know…..

The name of the mass shooter but we either don’t know (or don’t care) about where exactly he went so horribly wrong. Who let him down? Why was his condition allowed to fester? It’s hard to believe that he woke up that morning and suddenly became a mass shooter. The same sequence of questions could be posed concerning all repeat-offenders, criminals, addicts, domestic abusers, bullies, etc. Who were the persons and agencies in the lives of these persons who “looked the other way”? Did they mistakenly or willfully refuse to see these imminent train wrecks? Were they all “asleep at the switch” lacking the time, energy, resources or concern to avert these end results? 

We all know….

The stories about the “welfare queen” and the “food stamp fraudster” but we don’t know (or don’t care) the names behind the massive scams and white-collar crimes perpetrated to defraud millions. Most persons recognize the names Bernard Madoff (Ponzi scheme mastermind), the Enron company scoundrels (though their personal names are long forgotten) and the Sackler family big pharma villains. However, they are only the tip of the corruption iceberg. We have no recollection and express no sense of outrage concerning the rest of the corruption conspirators because they are nameless and faceless. Can anyone recall the names of the real estate and lending speculators who collapsed the housing market bringing harm to millions? Can anyone recall the names of the corporate giants who crashed the stock market in 2008 and were never prosecuted because they were “too big to fail”.?

We all know….

That the immigration system is a mess but it’s so much easier to focus rage on the immigrants rather that drill down to why they are refugees in the first place.

I raise these questions since deep down we all know there are systemic sources behind every bad result whether it pertains to a person, agency, state or nation. But it’s so much easier to hate both the sin and the sinner rather take a cold hard look at what led up to the sin and the sinner. 

This gnawing sense of angst about conditions and disillusionment with society in general and the government and media in particular is palpable whether you’re a MAGA supporter, working class/middle class member, liberal, progressive, conservative or libertarian. We all know deep down that something is very wrong and the deck is stacked against us way up stream far away from the crisis at the waterfall. 

I cite my own experience as a boomer whose swam hard all my life but realize I’ve been treading water all these years. I’m an avid swimmer so pardon all my water analogies. I’ve worked 2 & 3 jobs concurrently for over 40 years just for the opportunity to own a house and put my kids thru college. I was raised on the American Dream of good house, good school, good town while exerting good effort. These goals were generally accomplished, though my “good house” is a “fixer upper that never got fixed up”. It’s been a pyric victory since it’s been “mission accomplished” but I question at what cost. Well over 60% of my disposable income all these years has been eaten up by housing costs (mine) and education costs (my kids). Where did I go wrong? Did I go wrong? I have no arrest record, no addictions, no civil judgements, no spending sprees, no vacations and no extravagancies. Anyone who knows me considers me a minimalist whose satisfied with “3 hots and a cot”.

Am I disillusioned and angry? Hell yes! And I’m not alone as represented by the polarization and discourse in the public square. 

As I ponder the circumstances of myself and so many others, I look upstream to the three headed monsters of commodification and speculation in the housing, education and medical realms. In all cases, it’s the exorbitant interest expenses and entry fees that crush the American Dream. It’s the shell game and the blame game that they all play so skillfully to divert attention and blame to hide their profiteering. It’s the following unholy alliances upstream that are the culprits:

Realtors-Speculators-Developers-Bankers….in the real estate market.

Colleges-US Dept of Education-Loan Servicers…in the college market

Doctors-Medical Insurers-Pharmaceuticals….in the medical/pharma market

So what might be some solutions to exit this nightmare?

In the short run, call them out. Identify their corruption and excesses.

In the longer run, identify alternative lifestyles, adjust our perspectives and dream different dreams. This includes refocusing in the direction of the following:

Cooperative, mutual aid societies and alliances in our workplaces, careers, housing and education.

Pursue resiliency and self-reliance so we are not beholden to the upstream culprits. Pursue a simpler life that reduces our costs and increases our independence. Stop trying to “keep up with the Jones’s” and instead “unite with the Jones’s” so we can redirect our outrage for constructive results. 

Stay tuned for an upcoming blog that delves into these proposals. As always, share ideas and check out my website www.dunnwriteswell.com and my novel (Mall Child) which includes these notions of angst and alternatives.

My Playlist In Troubled Times

Songs can unite, inspire and speak truth to power 

Ironically the Emmy awards are scheduled tonight and it got me to thinking, we are way overdue for a 1960’s revival of the anti-war, anti-establishment, pro-civil rights songs. As a baby boomer, I’m finally gaining an appreciation for these songs with messages that were appropriate back then and today. 

Lately, whenever I’m in a store or the gym or anywhere in public, I’ve been consumed by the sense that I can no longer distinguish friend from foe. At the risk of sounding paranoid, it’s really bothering me that I’m moving among persons with whom I have nothing in common (or very little in common) in terms of politics, philosophy, morality, the meaning of life and our place in the arc of history. Those around me may look like me and we commiserate on a superficial level about the weather, sports and traffic but any scratching beneath the surface reveals irreparable differences.

I have an urge to scratch this itch and discover what we have in common. I yearn to ask everyone I encounter, the following questions: 

Did you vote in the last presidential election? If you didn’t, why did you abstain? 

Who did you vote for and why did you vote the way you did? What in your life led you to the beliefs, attitudes and perspectives that created the person that you are today?

These are all very intrusive questions that I dare not ask total strangers. I’ve opted to skirt these topics even with family members, friends and acquaintances. I’m deeply curious but also terrified of falling down those rabbit holes. I’m not interested in conversing with those who refuse to listen or try to convince the inconvincible. I hunger for connecting with those who can be trusted. Those who are equally outraged and ready, willing and able to act upon that rage. 

I’m intrigued with the idea of songs that could signal to others that “it’s ok to chat with me and join me in solidarity”. I compare this to the way slaves would sing songs in the fields signaling to each other plans to escape while the plantation owners thought they were just casually singing. If you consider all great movements in history (aka, the watershed events), it’s the songs, poems, literature and ideas that get things going, keep the momentum and have lasting impacts. 

So what might be “the song” that would be a call to action and an invitation to resist dark, immoral, unjust, hateful, vengeful, criminal, unconstitutional forces? 

The ideal song might be EDELWEISS sung in the musical The Sound of Music as the Trapp Family Singers artfully dodged being trapped by the Nazis at the end of the movie (spoiler alert). It’s a wonderful, melodious song and an inspirational movie which I highly recommend listening to and viewing. If you see the movie, you will quickly understand why it’s so appropriate for our current circumstances. The humming of this song might be the discrete catalyst for action that is so desperately needed. 

The other song that I recommend is “The Battle Hymn of the Republic” because it’s  recognizable and easy to hum. My great grandfather served in the Union army in the civil war so the song personally resonates with me. Additionally, I relate with the lyrics concerning the “grapes of wrath” since this connects with the Steinbeck novel “The Grapes of Wrath” with its’ theme of class warfare, economic hardship and the tragic side of the American Dream and capitalistic excesses.

The following is a playlist of songs that might offer solace and insight during these troubled times. Furthermore, they might galvanize positive, constructive action that might divert what, in my opinion, is a USA death spiral:

“Which Side Are You On”….a labor union anthem

Tracy Chapman songs that include “Talking bout a revolution”, “Change” and “Fast Car”

“Fortunate Son” by Creedence Clearwater Revival

“Blowin in the wind” by Peter, Paul & Mary

“The times they are a changing”

“Get Together” by The Youngbloods

“The War Drags On” by Donovan

“What’s Going On” by Marvin Gaye

“Revolution” by The Beatles (and of course….”Back in the USSR”)

“Allentown” by Billy Joel

“Rain On The Scarecrow, Blood On The Plow” by John Cougar Melloncamp

“For what it’s worth” by Buffalo Springfield

“Working Class Hero” by John Lennon (and of course…”Imagine”)

“I Won’t Back Down” by Tom Petty

And last but not least…my all-time favorite….

“The Eve Of Destruction” by Barry McGuire

So take a listen and focus on the lyrics and messages of all of the above. 

All these songs were relevant back then and unfortunately, they’re applicable today. As the saying goes “history repeats itself” but also remember the expressions “what goes around, comes around” and “you will reap what you sow”

I’m always interested in additional song suggestions and reflections so don’t hesitate to reach out and check out my blogs on www.dunnwriteswell.com along with my novel Mall Child which includes some of the aforementioned themes